Why does it bother people so much that i have been getting lucky and getting the easy way out of life?

On the face of it, they are just pi**ed that you've had good fortune and that you are one of life's lucky sob's, and they are not. But I can't help the niggling feeling that you are not as nice a guy as you would have us think. Otherwise only some of your friends and family would be jealous, not all.